Tapestry and Linen
Proverbs 31:22
“She maketh herself coverings of tapestry; her clothing is silk and purple.”
Modern Fashion
Opposite from what God requires…
If you’ve looked at what women are wearing these days, modern day fashion of today isn’t quite what we would call godly or Christian as a whole. I truly believe that God requires women to be more modest and aware of her clothing style, as to not draw unwanted attention. To most people being modest sounds “prudish” or “grandma”, but to God it’s more of a precious, feminine form of fashion.
The female figure is beautiful, and God made it that way on purpose. It is to be cherished and kept pure, not flaunted and provocative. Unfortunately in the world we live in, it is completely the opposite.
When I see women, as I’m out and about in my daily activities, I’ve noticed that they don’t seem to understand this Godly rule. So many are “too comfortable” and look like they threw on pajamas and left it at that, or they go in the opposite direction and show EVERYTHING off. There doesn’t seem to be a middle perspective.
Don’t follow Trends
Be unique in your own style…
I remember growing up and how we actually dressed a certain way to go out to eat or to the movies. It was a special treat, and we took it seriously. Not too many people wore pajamas or house shoes in public (actually no-one did). We were modest and respectful back then and we should be the same way today.
Countless women follow the latest “trends” and even dress their own daughters in these trends, which can be un-flattering or “too-grown-up” looking for a small child. Unfortunately, God is “not into trends”. He is very specific about the way a woman should dress, not only for herself but also her children. They are an example for future generations; so this is not something we should take lightly.
Also, many women don’t sew their own clothes anymore, but if you enjoy sewing and making things, it wouldn’t be a bad idea to make your own, since the designers of today, don’t seem to be making much these days that complement God’s idea of fashion. As a mother I would think that making sure her children, husband and even herself are a shining example of cleanliness, style and discretion. I know that my own mother used to tell me that it’s better to be over-dressed than under. I agree with that completely. As Godly women we set a precedent for others to follow.
Chic and stylish
Feminine is what God made us to be…
If we could bring back the beautiful looks of the 1950’s or earlier, that would truly be wonderful. Women were so chic, elegant and stylish, from their head to their toes; jewelry, purses, shoes, dresses, pants; everything mattered. Femininity was at an all-time high and respected; which is so important when in the company of others, men and women alike.
As a Proverbs 31 woman, I would say that staying on the side of modesty is your best bet. Be an example, be different, don’t be like everyone else, sloppy and distasteful. What’s the point of looking like you just stepped out of a nightclub on a Tuesday morning? Change the way you dress for God, yourself and your family, not to impress others, but to be an example. It will make a huge difference in the way you feel and the way others see you.
Start small if it’s easier, add a scarf or a cute hat, maybe some cute shoes or accessories. Over time, you will start to increase these changes and eventually understand what God has been teaching us all along. Others will notice and will appreciate your new fresh outlook.
We often get caught up in trends and styles, searching for acceptance and validation through how we dress. But the Scriptures guide us to a different truth: God sees the inner beauty of a woman, which is far more valuable than any fabric or accessory we could ever wear. Our clothing should reflect our faith, character, and love for others.
“Likewise also that women should adorn themselves in respectable apparel, with modesty and self-control, not with braided hair and gold or pearls or costly attire, but with what is proper for women who profess godliness—with good works.”